​This page is always under construction and will be added to as time permits and life continues

​​January 21, 1969 - Paul Joseph Egleston is Born

​Sometime around 1975 - Desires to be a girl start to surface

​Sometime around 1977 - Began really dreaming of being a girl

Sometime around 1982 - Begin dressing up when I could hide

1984- attended a prep seminary my freshman Year of high school

​I lived in a all male dormitory and even had a stash of clothes with me because I would use part of my allowance to purchase female clothing

​April 1986 - Started working a job in fast food

​Started really buying my own collection of girls clothing.

​I would dress after work if even for a couple of minutes before getting scared.

​I would wear panties, pantyhose or tights under my school clothes

​1986 Met my first real girlfriend - I did tell her of my crossdressing and the relationship ended

​October 1986 - Halloween Dressed up and went to work as a French Maid.

​May 1987 - Graduated from High school

​1987- I talked with a military recruiter but couldn't figure out how I could dress in the military so never signed up

​1988 - Started College - Auto Mechanics - never finished ran out of money

​1989 - met my first wife - Yes I did tell her of my crossdressing and did dress with her present

1991 - I was married for the first time

​1991- I purged all of my clothing and suffered only a couple days before making a purchase of more female clothing.

August 1991 - My daughter was born

​Dressed up privately at home most any free time I could

​Dressed up and went Renfest as a cheerleader

​1992- Dressed up as a girl and went to work at convenience store for Halloween

​1993- I had false nails done for Halloween

​Dressed up as cheerleader and took my daughter to Worlds of Fun

1994- Divorced from my first wife -

1994- Met my current wife

I would dress up and be Kimberly as often as possible.  There were times that I would try and venture out but the fear of someone discovering me kept me mostly in the closet.  A few time my second wife would play with my hair and make-up and we'd make a trip to the store. Every Halloween was an opportunity to dress from this point on as I could hide behind the holiday.   

1997- I Dressed up in a French maids outfit had a Halloween party and asked my wife to marry me

1998-I got married ***I got corrected by the wife as I originally put the wrong date oops ***

​After the wedding was done I went home and got dressed up and went out with my wife.  There have been many days of closet hiding in my life and unfortunately I wasted a lot of time in fear because I don't want to loose people in my life.  There were times with little bit of Kimberly and several with lots of Kimberly.  I can remember once when the wife told me to give Kimberly a break and then after a week of grumpy I was told get dressed. 

​2003-attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway- for the first time- I drove down Enfemme scared to death but managed to fight through with the help of others and my wife. 

2004-attended Eureka Enfemme Spring Getaway -  I was a little more at ease than the first time

​2004-Attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway - I was lot more at ease

​2005- Attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway-

​2006- Attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway-

​2007-Attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway-

​2008-Attended Eureka Enfemme Fall Getaway-

​2011-Started Wearing fake nails full time 

​2011-Started wearing make-up to work

​2012-Started wearing skirts to Hockey games

​2013-I've been wearing skirts and dresses out to eat regularly 

​2013-I went all home Mavs Hockey Games dressed up

2014-I got rid of all but a couple pair of male jeans

 October -2016 Started attending group

​October - 2016 -Called the Transgender Institute

​November - 2016 - Met with Caroline at Transgender Institute to discuss my gender issue.

​November - 2016 -got my paperwork to get hormones

​December -  2016-went to the Hormone doctor

​December -  2016 Started Hormones

​March 2016 - went to my first real doctors appointment in 30 years - It's documented that I'm transgendered

​April 2017 - I went and told my daughter then my parents of my intentions to live as a transwoman

​September-told HR that I was Transgender

​October 2017- I've been attending group regularly for a year

​November 5, 2017- Officially acknowledged the fact I am a transwoman on both of my active facebook accounts. 

​November 6. 2017- My official coming out day at work as Kimberly and using the ladies room.

​December 8,2017 -My first year anniversary on hormones

​December 27,2017- started Voice lessons

​January 3,2018- filed for my name change

​February 20, 2018 Name and gender change complete

​March 7, 2018 Started another round of voice lessons

January 14, 2019 started my third round of voice lessons.

January 19,2021 Started making serious plans for bottom surgery

November 5,2021 bottom surgery was completed

October 31,2023 25th wedding anniversary

October 2024 retired from racing as an official

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